One of the primary reasons why so many Saas-Bahu soaps have growing TRPs each year is that most families can easily relate to the Saas-Bahu issues shown on the soaps. The Saas-Bahu drama is not just on the Television but also outside it and in everybody’s home. This is one of those relationships that cannot be avoided or be handled easily.

As soon as the daughter in law steps in to the house the war begins. But, it does not have to be this way. Just as Numerology can help solve issues between couples, it can also help in bringing a balance in the Mother-in Law and Daughter-in Law relationship.

Numbers play an important role in determining the overall personality of an individual. Each number is ruled by a planet which governs the person’s attitude, behaviour and temperament including that of all the mothers-in-law of the world. Let us look at the types of Mothers-in-Law that we have seen at least once in our lifetime.

Types of ‘Mothers-in-Law’ those are more like ‘Monsters-in-Law’

The Jealous Mother-in-Law / ‘He could have done better’

This is one of the most common kinds of Mother-in-Law that is not too happy to share her son with her daughter-in-law. Her jealousy usually arises from an obsessive and over protective feeling for her son. She probably thinks you can never be good enough for her perfect son even if you may be a queen. In her perception nobody can take care of her son more than her.

If your mother-in-law is born on 2nd, 11th, 20th or 29th she is ruled by The Moon. Number 2 people are very imaginative and have frequent mood swings which could the reason for her perception that nobody is as perfect as her son. Hence her jealousy could arise her extremely moody nature. Number 2 individuals are also peace loving and sometimes over emotional. So be patient when you are dealing with your mother-in-law if she is ruled by numerology number 2.

The Perfectionist Mother-in-Law 

A perfectionist Mother-in-Law is the one completely obsessed with keeping everything perfect. When the daughter-in-law enters her home, her perfection is suddenly distorted and that is when the arguments begin. She prefers a spick and span house and arranged according to her preference. From her carpets to her rugs and her kitchen everything has to stay clean and arranged just as it is.

If your Mother-in-Law is born on 8th, 17th or 26th she is quiet likely to be obsessed with discipline and determined to make you work really hard to meet her high standards of perfection. Number 8 people are very strong willed and great fighters also, so it is not going to be easy dealing with her perfectionist attitude.

The Nosy Mother-in-Law / ‘When are you going to have kids’

This is quite a problematic mother-in-law who has to have a say in everything starting from what her son wears to what he eats, if the daughter-in-law is wasteful or too stingy etc. She is of the kind who wants to know each and every thing in your daily routine.

If born on 6th, 15th, or 24th, your mother-in-law’s attitude could be taking up the responsibility of keeping a tab on everything or everyone (especially her daughter-in-law) connected to her son in ever small or big way. Number 6 individuals may be very caring, emotional and responsible but in case of mother-in-laws these qualities can cross the line. They are also very argumentative which means she would not rest until she proved her point in every argument you have with her.

The Needy Mother-in-Law 

This mother-in-law is always in need for attention and this need suddenly grows when her son is married and her daughter-in-law arrives. She wants to be the centre of attraction at every occasion standing right beside her son. She expects a call every day or frequently, before she travels and after her trip, when she is sick and when she is better etc. She wants that extra special attention from her son and even if she might be getting it she is not satisfied.

This seems like a person with numerology number 3. If she is born on 3rd, 12th, 21st or 30th then she is most likely to be very self-obsessed and would expect every bit of attention from her son. Number 3 people are ruled by Jupiter, a planet known for wisdom and knowledge. They are also very diplomatic, confident and quite lucky. They are most likely to have their way and so is your mother-in-law if she belongs to number 3.

The Expert Mother-in-Law / ‘I know what is better for your kids’

This sort of mother-in-law is the one who considers herself an expert at everything from raising your kids to cooking the best chicken. She is quite vocal to point out things she thinks you are doing wrong. Especially in matters of parenting she considers herself extremely skilled with a ‘been there done that attitude’. According to her, her years of experience overrule everything including the fact that you are their mother.

If your mother-in-law is born on 9th, 18th or 27th then she is ruled by Mars, a very powerful and fiery planet. Individuals born under Number 9 are very dominating, short tempered, highly energetic, emotional and restless. So, she is most likely to think herself superior than you and would go ahead and do what she thinks is right for you and your family. Her restless and short temper would make it extremely difficult to reason with her in any way.

The one who can’t pronounce your name Mother-in-Law

Your name may have the easiest pronunciation but your mother-in-law will never call you by it. Instead she would prefer to address you as his son’s wife. This sort of mother-in-law is easily found in the Indian society who would prefer to address her daughter-in-law as ‘Rohan ki bahu’ than by her proper name.

If she is born on 4th, 13th, 22nd or 23rd then she is ruled by Rahu, also known as Dragon’s Head. People born under the influence of number 4 have an uneven temper and a doubting nature. She may have a hard time trusting you or consider you as important as her son to remember your name. Number 4 individuals are also Good Conversationalists, very hard working and unconventional.

The ‘My Son loves me more’ Mother-in-Law

This is the most common mother-in-law trait and very difficult for the daughter-in-law to endure. She loves to brag about how much her son loves her especially at parties and special occasions. It might be embarrassing for you but not for her. In fact she does not stop at that. She prefers to serve him food herself or else, according to her, he won’t eat properly.

If your mother-in-law is born on 1st, 10th, 19th or 28th she could be very much similar to this example. Number 1 people usually love boasting. They are ruled by The Sun it blesses them with a lot of energy as well as a big ego. They are adamant and authoritative so if she thinks her son should take her suggestion then there is no arguing about that.

The ‘Didn’t your Mother teach you anything’ Mother-in-Law

One of the most dangerous kind of mother-in-law, she will grab every chance she gets to say ‘Didn’t your Mother teach you anything’. You cannot afford to make mistakes in her presence.

If your mother-in-law is born on 7th, 16th or 25th then she is ruled by Ketu or Dragon’s tail. Number 7 individuals are highly analytical so she will analyse everything you do or say. Number 7 people are also very intuitive, sentimental, philosophical, introvert and quite secretive. Thus, it will be difficult to know what she really thinks of you.

The Mother-in-Law that does not like you no matter what

This is the kind of mother-in-law who once decides to dislike you, will not change her mind easily. You better make a good first impression to win her favour. Born on 5th, 14th or 23rd, her high ego could be because she is number 5 according to Numerology and ruled by Mercury. These individuals are very moody, Egoistic and very talkative. They are also usually very jovial and quick witted. To make her like you it would be a good idea to keep her cheerful which is not too difficult if she is a number 5.

How Numerology can help balance the Mother-in-Law and Daughter-in-law relationship?

Numerology has the power to reveal the characteristics of a person. They can help to understand the positive and negative aspects of an individual.

A Numerologist can analyse in detail the personality of your mother-in-law through her name and date of birth and prepare a detailed report. This report can help you understand her better and work out a balance without straining the relationship.

He/She can advise you as to how you should behave around your mother-in-law so that neither of you have to compromise on your happiness. This balance in your relationship with your mother-in-law will keep a cordial atmosphere at home and maintain healthy ties with her.

So if you want to solve your mother-in-law problems you can talk to our Numerology experts. No matter who your ‘Saas’ or Mother-in-Law is, they can help you remove the ‘In-Law’ and make her your ‘Mother’.

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