We all yearn to be loved, to be close to someone who makes us feel loved. Therefore, we all yearn to connect with the people that mean the most to us at different levels – emotionally, physically, spiritually and mentally. However, the urge to love and to be loved is restricted by certain taboos and societal impositions. The feeling cannot be subdued.

In astrological parlance, all of us reflect an expression of the Life Force, or better known as a polarised energy field. While the force is omnipresent, it is only expressed to us in the form of polarity – balancing two extremes. It is the life force that drives our sexual desires.

Balancing Extremes: Decoding Polarity

While the life force manifests itself in the world, we are made aware of its presence by understanding polarity through:

• Dark-light

• Masculine-feminine

• Hot-cold

• Ying-yang

• Positive-negative

Therefore, each astrological sign also manifests polarity. Take for example the baby of the sun signs, Aries. They are usually masculine, diurnal, positive and hot and dry. However, Pisces are on the whole moist and cool and moist, feminine and nocturnal (dark). While one star sign is full of energy, the other is quite laidback.

It will also not be right to generalise all persons belonging to one star sign. Not all Aries are over-achievers nor are all Pisceans laidback. Each person has different traits in them which are balanced out. Some people might not fit the description of their star sign. When polarity is balanced, it creates a unique human being. Not everyone is the same, and that’s the good news.

Human beings, men, women and children, all display polarity according to sex, sign and factors such as ruling planet, planetary aspect and house position. The keys to sexuality in the horoscope, however, are Venus and Mars, or desire and action. Here is polarity in action: Venus is the emblem of the feminine side, while Mars is the opposite, polar emblem of masculinity. The interpretation of the horoscope is fundamental to a true understanding of our sexual polarities.

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Life Force of Venus and Mars

In a man’s horoscope, Venus is the representation of the sort of women he is drawn to while Mars indicates what kind of action he will resort to in order to achieve his desires. The placement of Mars in a woman’s horoscope is an indicator of the type of men she is attracted to whilst Venus denotes the ways in which she will make her presence be known in order to draw their attention.

This life force which flows along subtle channels between people can result in an electrifying experience when a connection is made with that special kind of person. As powerful as this force is in the physical and emotional aspects of life, it should be noted that relationships work on many different levels and not by this force alone.

In life we are drawn to a natural liking for others as much as we are drawn by certain desirable characteristics, which to some degree we lack in ourselves. When a powerful sexual attraction connects to these features, it makes for a compelling energy exchange that is highly stimulating. It would therefore seem that this exchange is designed to develop the generation of new life and ultimately the continuation of all life on earth.

Freedom of Sexuality

In primitive times, human sexuality had no conduit for self expression. It was primarily an act engaged in for the purpose of reproduction. Society in ancient days viewed sexuality as a sacrament and child raising as a communal responsibility to carry on the family line.

Over the years human sexuality has progressed into a much more complex nature birthed by our intelligence and the progressive role of society. While the fundamental function of one’s sexuality still is to reproduce, today sexual behaviour of humans is not restricted to reproduction alone. Freedom of sexual expression is dominant in today’s society where women especially enjoy the same sexual freedom that only men were once privileged to. While the west most notably have overcome traditional norms of sexuality, other countries have fast caught up with the west and are now seen as taking a more relaxed approach to sexual freedom.

Aspects of Venus and Mars in the birth chart and their position in relation to sign, dignity and elevation are considered clear indicators of sexual behaviour. A major element of our sexuality is dominated by Mars. The sign house position of Mars in our birth charts as well as the aspects Mars makes with other planets and points provides insightful information into one’s personal sexual style and preferences. Venus however which is the planet of love, romance and pleasure also has its role to play in human sexuality whereby it helps ascertain one’s mood for sex.

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Sexual Force of Venus and Mars in Relation to the Zodiac

Aries – When Venus or Mars is in Aries sex is best enjoyed when it is spontaneous and unrestricted. This sun sign is driven by a powerful desire and are sincere and enthusiastic in their sexual expression.

Taurus – The presence of Venus or Mars in Taurus seeks to arouse all the senses of one’s sexual nature. This sun sign is the most physical of sexual partners where they enjoy plenty of physical contact. They have a sexual stamina that’s steady and can go for a long length of time.

Gemini – When Venus or Mars is in Gemini it gives rise to a sexual experience that is fuelled by talk during sex. Gemini love indulging in bursts of conversation during love-making. It’s what turns them on more than the act itself. They are also enthusiastic lovers with a tendency to try out everything under the sun.

Cancer - When Venus or Mars is in Cancer, you can be sure of a sweet and romantic sexual experience. This sign loves the idea of being all yours in bed. Slave scenarios especially turn them on and they enjoy a little aggression too as long as they feel secure in your love for them.

Leo - When Venus or Mars is in Leo, sexual fantasies often revolve around devotion and attention. They like the idea of being treated like a god or goddess in bed which is what turns them on the most. As much as they take pride in being the best during love-making they can also be quite demanding in bed.

Virgo – The presence of Venus or Mars in Virgo brings about a healthy attitude towards sex. Sex is seen more as a bodily function that’s needed to boost overall health and well-being. Tensions and stresses of the day are released through sexual activity and simple and sweet love-making is how they like it done.

Libra - When Venus or Mars is in Libra, pleasing one’s partner is of utmost importance. These lovers seek balance and perfection in bed as much as they do in their relationships. They love working on getting things right and will give plenty provided they get in return. They are sexually expressive as well and love indulging in role-playing sex games.

Scorpio – The presence of Venus or Mars in Scorpio gives rise to a complex sexual nature. These lovers although intense in their sexual desires vary in their sexual expression. While both enjoy power, they have different ways of wielding it. Some have no inhibitions when it comes to sexual expression of all kinds and they enjoy all pleasures of the body. Others exert their control by refusing sex for long periods of time only to give in when they feel their partner is deserving.

Sagittarius - When Venus or Mars is in Sagittarius sex takes on a more sportive nature. The Sagittarius lover is forthcoming in their needs and desires and they have a playful way about them in bed. Sex is all fun and games for them. They have no patience for romance and seriousness during the act and are turned off by too many intricacies in bed.

Capricorn - When Venus or Mars is in Capricorn, sex takes on a simple and straightforward nature. The earthiness of the Capricorn sign is very evident in their love-making style. They are more happy with consistency rather than variety however, their sexuality runs deep and powerful when with the right partner. They are often attracted to partners who are strong and powerful and command some authority in bed.

Aquarius - When Venus or Mars is in Aquarius, there exists an attitude of ‘take it or leave it’ in sex which can either be sexy for the partner or drive them mad. Aquarius can come across as rather cold in bed although they are not given to think so. This is because it is the idea of sex which they find more exciting than the actual act.

Pisces - When Venus or Mars is in Pisces, sex takes on a more flirtatious approach. These lovers are more willing to please and are generally open to all avenues of sexual expression. They are often forgiving and bending and their sexual preferences are more varied in style.

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